I got married last December to a man I met on a matchmaking tour, a service under a foreign dating site. He was very kind to me, very sweet and caring. When we started living together it was fine. He would take care of me when I was feeling sick and made promises. After a few months of being together, he’s become lazy. He stays home most of the time, I’m not even sure he still has his job. He’s such a slob now. He leaves his unfinished food on the floor next to the couch and expects me to keep on following him to clean it up. It’s like I’m raising a child. I mean I do love him, but should I leave him?